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A D V E
N T U R O U S F O R E P L A Y
Eating together can be sensual and even more than this, food and
lovemaking have always been linked throughout history. Some lovers find
that certain foods have particular memories. Perhaps a meal out in a
foreign restaurant reminds them of a wonderful holiday together. Even
cooking a meal for one another at home can be the start of wonderful
foreplay.
Take
every opportunity to feed each other tasty things; linger over the meal;
dress or undress for the occasion as the mood takes you; really romance
one another.
Dancing
together, whether in public or private, can be a stimulating start to
foreplay. A good deal of dancing is a kind of public, vertical
intercourse, however symbolic, but in private you can dance with your
lover to your favorite music in an uninhibited way which would be quite
inappropriate in public. Tease and slowly undress each other as you
dance. This can quite easily develop into a delicious strip in which one
of you teases the other in a "no touch" way.
Adventurous couples dress up especially for their private dance. You can
relive a favorite holiday, event, or fantasy. The woman can pretend to
be a "hostess" at a club and entertain her man in the way she knows he
enjoys most. The man might dress up in his best suit or even a dinner
jacket and "pick her up" as if he were at formal public dance and they
had just met. The variations are endless.
EROTIC TOUCHING
Try "massaging" your lover with interesting and erotic objects. Furs,
leather, feathers, hot air from a hair dryer, ice and so on, can all
produce delicious sensations. Make sure that the heat is never too hot
and that ice is never straight from the freezer. Both can burn the skin,
especially sensitive skin on nipples and genitals.
Tongue
massage or bathing is another delicious type of foreplay. Lick or bathe
your lovers body all over with your tongue. Be adventurous and go into
previously unexplored nooks and crannies.
Use
parts of your body that you would never normally think of using to
massage your lover. For example, you can both use your feet; or thighs
or a woman can use her breasts; and so on.
Many
people enjoy being tied up so that they are at the mercy of their lover.
A recent survey revealed that about one fifth of women in the UK make
suck games a part of their lovemaking. When tying one another up in a
playful way be careful not to use rope or anything that hurts the skin.
Always have an agreed sign that means that you'll always let the other
free.
WILD WITH PASSION
Fingers can play a vital role in adventurous pleasuring, as the hands
are a sensitive part of the body - especially the fingertips. Take time
to reduce the lovemaking temperature a little as you caress each others
fingers both with your hands and in your mouth. Sucking fingers drives
most people wild with passion in a few minutes. Kiss the hand tenderly,
massaging the palm with a little oil.
Many
women enjoy their mans fingers inside their vagina as part of foreplay
pleasuring. Any woman who has had intercourse can easily take two
fingers and a considerate man should discover what she best likes to
have done. For some women, many fingers stretching the vaginal opening
are what they best like; for others, caressing the cervix is exquisite;
for others, one or two fingers inserted just at the entrance and kept
perfectly still is the best. The women can lie in various positions for
this game. On her side with one leg drawn up, gives her a completely new
sensation; so does having her on all fours or even lying on her tummy.
This game can lead to playing with her G-spot, which is the sensitive
area on the woman's front vaginal wall.
LICKING GAMES
Tongue bathing is exciting and stimulating but kissing deeply and all
kinds of creative licking games are all firm favorites. How about
something delicious on your lovers skin and licking it off? This is
especially nice on the breasts or nipples and can also include the
genitals.
When he
comes to perform cunnilingus on her he can cover the whole area with
yoghurt or some other creamy food and lick it off slowly.
How far
you can take this mouth play towards non-ejaculatory orgasm is up to the
individual but the idea of such creative foreplay is to raise the sexual
appetite so that you both want each other desperately and cannot wait to
make love.
For the
multiple orgasmic woman (of course we are talking about non-ejaculatory
orgasm that means that the woman feels intensive pleasure without
loosing sexual energy) this level of foreplay gives her the chance to
get profound orgasm, several times before being entered.
SEXUAL TALISMAN
Lastly, aural lovemaking - or verbal sensual fantasizing - is a great
turn-on for most couples. Learn about each others fantasies and then
take it in turns to talk each other through them when pleasuring each
other prior to intercourse. The secret is to include lots of details and
to be sure to get the detail exactly right by feedback from your lover.
Ask question such us, "What would she/he be wearing?" or "What would
she/he be doing?"
Once you
have found out what best excites and arouses your lover, don't deviate
from it. Use the same details every time, as they become a sort of
sexual talisman. Many people know exactly how to bring their lovers to
orgasm just by telling them the right story in the right way.
This
sort of adventurous foreplay personalizes lovemaking between lovers in a
way that makes it delicious for both of them. It is also a unique way to
communicate both physically and mentally.
Such
adventurous foreplay takes time and effort to practice and make it
perfect.
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