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L E A R N H O W T O T O U C H T H E C L I T O
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The difficulty in knowing how to touch the clitoris comes from
the contrast between the stimulation of the penis, which usually
needs to be strong, ample and done with force as compared to the
delicate, modulated touch needed when caressing the clitoris;
this kind of touch refers to emotions which are not specific to
men. Another difficulty is given by the variety of zones that
produce pleasure, of the touch, of the necessary rhythm: there
aren't two women who are alike from this point of view.
The sensitive point of the clitoris, the pressure of caressing,
and the rhythm of touches could be found by exploring the
clitoris, according to the woman's reactions: breath, sounds,
moans, words, moves which show us the intensity of the pleasure
she feels or, on the contrary, its absence or the sensation of
discomfort. If the woman, by means of self-stimulation, has
found exactly the points of excitation and the ways of turning
them on, she may easily guide the man showing him how to do it
and he will just have to imitate her. She has not to hesitate
and she may even take the hand of her lover in order to transmit
to him the way of touching and the rhythm she wants.
The
point of pleasure may be approached from different angles as
every woman has her preference either for the clitoris glands,
or for the terminal part of it, or for the body of the clitoris.
The place of this point is very precise, occupying a few
millimeters; outside this tiny epicenter the stimulation does
not have the desired effect. This precise place is best to be
discovered by the woman by means of self-stimulation and if she
doesn't reveal it to her lover, he will have to find it by
softly and carefully passing the tip of his finger of these tiny
enigmatic surfaces of the clitoris.
HOW TO CARESS THE CLITORIS
USING ONE FINGER
- The forefinger: although it is classical, the
forefinger is not the best to be used

- The middle finger: it is preferred as it allows a
better centering of the hand on the vulvas axle, having the
palm placed on the Venus mountain. The forefinger and the ring
finger could be used to symmetrically caress the inner side of
the major labia.
- The thumb: is placed towards the base, on the
clitoridian zone. The other fingers are on the pubis.
USING MORE THAN ONE FINGER
- The forefinger and the middle finger: each of them
is placed on each outer side of the clitoris
- The forefinger, the middle finger and the ring finger:
the forefinger and the ring finger are on the outer side of
the clitoris and the middle finger is placed on the top of the
clitoris prepuce
- The right forefinger and the left forefinger: these
two fingers are placed on the outer side of the clitoris in
order to rub the prepuce and the clitoris between them as if
they rubbed an ear of wheat, but they do this delicately
- The four fingers: the two central fingers (the
middle fingers and the ring finger) rub the prepuce and the
clitoris between them, the two side fingers (the index and the
little finger) are placed on the minor labia
- The middle and the ring finger softly grip the prepuce and
the clitoris and caress them.
USING THE HAND
- Using the palm: Its sarcous side is passed over the
clitoridian zone
- Using the whole hand: The palm and the
fingers palm side gently touch the clitoris. The optimum
pressure depends on the woman, from soft to strong, but it
must not be "overpowered". If sometimes the woman herself
makes strong moves on it, most of the time she does this
having the thighs closed together. When the lover stimulates
her, he starts with a soft pressure that he grows it
gradually. The touch which is most appreciated by woman is a
circular touch, the fingers pass around the clitoris forming
little circles. It is necessary to lubricate the finger with
sexual fluids of woman or with your saliva in order to perform
circular movements without lifting the finger from the point
of application.
Here are presented briefly other possible ways of touching the
clitoris:
- Coming and going movements on the axle of the vulva
- A soft pressure over the clitoris along the prepuce using
the thumb and the forefinger. The fingers will delicately roll
the erectile body of the clitoris.
The
rhythm of caressing has to be regular, continuously maintained,
in order to better support the excitation that will make the
woman reach the climax of pleasure. The accumulation of the
sexual energy at the clitoridian zone and the growth of arousing
are assured by a constantly maintaining of the touches rhythm.
Any change of pressure, of the way of touch, of tempo, risks to
cause a fall of the excitation level.
The clitoridian touching duration is that wished by the
woman. The caressing will never stop before the woman asks for
it. And it has not to be stopped when the clitoridian orgasm is
reached. The lover has not to reduce the pressure, not to loose
the contact with the clitoris or to slow the rhythm. If the
caressing of clitoris is accompanied by the touches and kisses
of other accessible parts of the body will produce a growth of
pleasure.
MAKE YOUR WOMAN HAPPY BY CARESSING HER CLITORIS !

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